You’re meant to receive love, not chase it.

Do you find yourself resenting the idea of love—because no matter how much you give, it still hasn’t worked out?

Does the thought of offering your time, energy & heart again feel more exhausting than exciting?

I want to tell you something: these feelings are totally valid.

But here’s what I need you to hear next: You are so worthy of deep, genuine love—no matter what’s happened so far.

You just need to stop abandoning yourself to earn it.

Does this feel familiar? 👇🏼

You only get to feel happy for a moment—before something goes wrong & you can’t fix it, no matter how hard you try.
Your heart races when he takes hours to reply.
You reread your texts a dozen times, praying you didn’t “say too much.”
You’re caught in replaying the three-date situationship that ended in ghosting like a maze with no way out.
You feel embarrassed & confused when your good intentions seem matched at first, only to feel used later.
No one seems to give the effort you do. And it sends you spiraling into,“What’s wrong with me? Why don’t I ever get the happy ending?”

But the problem isn’t you—

It’s the version of you that learned to earn love by shrinking, pleasing, and over-giving.

You’re not broken.

You’re just overdue to bloom into your confident, unfazed era.

The one that looks like this:

💌 You get ghosted—but instead of crying, you breathe deeply and think, thank you, universe, for the redirection.

🧘‍♀️ A first date fizzles, and you feel peace—not panic—because you’re no longer trying to prove your worth to strangers.

💡 You catch yourself feeling anxious—but now you know how to ground yourself, process it & move on, not spiral.

🚩 He shows a red flag, & instead of spending hours inventing excuses for his behavior, you feel gratitude at being shown why he’s not meant for you.

💗 And when someone does show up aligned, present, and emotionally available…

You don’t sabotage it (even when it might feel scary).

You receive it. With an open heart. And with standards intact.

Because you know you deserve it, and that anyone is lucky to access your heart!

This is the transformation my work leads you into—not just “feeling better,” but living, loving, and choosing differently. Intuitively. Confidently.

I’m Emily. 😘

And I’m here to help you stop chasing love & start attracting it—by becoming the version of you who no longer settles.

I created Root to Love because I lived this.

I once stayed in an emotionally abusive relationship with someone who made me question everything about myself — because I truly believed I didn’t deserve more.

In dating, I’ve ignored red flags, suppressed my needs, and told myself to be grateful for crumbs. CRUMBS.

But once I finally said “there HAS to be a better way” & dug deeper — I discovered exactly how to feel safe in my own body, grounded in being my full, perfectly imperfect self, and sure as hell of my worth. Everything changed.

And now, it’s your turn. 💝

What changes when you do this process?

🌱 You go from “Will he like me?” to “Do I even like him?”

🌱 You stop confusing anxiety with attraction.

🌱 You recognize emotional safety - not chaos - as a turn-on.

🌱 You rewrite your standards, and actually stick to them.

🌱 You feel whole without a relationship, and magnetize one that matches your wholeness.

It’s not about “fixing yourself.” There is nothing wrong with you.

It’s about coming back to yourself—and learning to receive love without performing or changing yourself for it.

Coming Soon: Bloom Into Love

My coaching program for:

Single women ready to break old dating patterns & attract aligned love they’ve always deserved.
Women in a relationship looking to improve & deepen their connection with their partner

Until then, let’s stay connected.

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