This isn’t more
dating tips.
This is ditching anxiety to attract love, not chase it.
Does it feel like every sunset you ride into with Prince Charming leads to crying on the couch, destroying a pint of Ben & Jerry’s & posting passive aggressive stories to Instagram?
I get it. Dating can be frustrating. Throw in anxiety, & it’s downright draining.
But the actual problem to your love life probably isn’t what you think.
What if I said that your childhood is running the show from who you attract, to what you think you deserve, to how you show up in dating?
It’s not just dating enough people to eventually find the one. It’s learning to show up as the version of yourself who’s finally ready for them.
Does this feel familiar? 👇🏼
You love the rush of excitement & potential with someone new—before the eventual crumbling where you’re left wondering what you did wrong
Your heart races when they take hours to reply & it’s hard to do anything productive while you wait.
You reread and edit your texts a dozen times before sending.
It feels like it’s always your fault for things not working out & you drive yourself crazy thinking about what you should’ve done differently.
Your heart falls into your stomach when you finally ask “what are we,” only for them to avoid a label.
You do little things like bringing their favorite candy for a movie date snack, but never feel the same level of them paying attention.
And it all sends you spiraling into,What’s wrong with me? Why does this always happen? Why don’t I ever get the happy ending?
But the problem isn’t you—
It’s the version of you that learned that you have to earn love to begin with.
Hi, I’m Emily. 😘
I’m here to help you stop chasing the wrong people & attract the partner you deserve - by becoming the version of you who no longer settles.
I created Root to Love because I lived this.
I once stayed in an emotionally abusive relationship with someone who made me question & doubt my own worth - because I truly believed I didn’t deserve more.
In dating, I’ve ignored red flags, suppressed my needs, and held onto people even after being shown that I was not truly safe with them.
I eventually hit a breaking point and I thought, “there HAS to be a better way.” Once I finally dug deeper — I discovered exactly how to feel safe in my own body, stay grounded in being my perfectly imperfect self, and sure as hell of my worth.
I am now in a wonderful relationship with my fiance, Akshat. I know we would not have attracted each other if I hadn’t healed from my past and transformed my dating approach.
And now, it’s your turn. 💝
What does dating from self-love look like?
🤍 You show up as yourself from the beginning - & only order that salad if you actually want it!
🤍 You prioritize when someone brings you peace, not just butterflies.
🤍 You don’t entertain guys who expect you to be ok with days between hearing from them.
🤍 You don’t match with the guy who smokes, even though he’s hot, because it doesn’t align with your standards.
🤍 You date yourself first - give yourself compliments, buy yourself roses - & only accept the same or better treatment.
It’s not about “fixing yourself.” There is nothing wrong with you.
It’s about coming back to yourself—and learning to receive love without performing or changing yourself for it.
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