This isn’t more
dating tips.

This is ditching anxiety to attract love, not chase it.

Does it feel like every sunset you ride into with Prince Charming leads to crying on the couch, destroying a pint of Ben & Jerry’s & posting passive aggressive stories to Instagram?

I get it. Dating can feel like way more trouble than it’s worth sometimes.

But the actual problem to your love life probably isn’t what you think.

It’s not just dating enough people to eventually find the one. It’s learning to show up as the version of yourself who’s finally ready for them.

Does this feel familiar?

You obsessively check your phone when you’re waiting on them to text back.
You reread and edit your texts a dozen times before sending.
It feels like it’s always your fault for things not working out - if only you were more interesting, or prettier, or less opinionated, or more chill.
Your heart falls into your stomach when you finally ask “what are we,” terrified that you’re somehow about to ruin things.
You do little things like bringing their favorite candy for a movie date snack, but never feel the same level of them paying attention.

And it all sends you spiraling into,What’s wrong with me? Am I just unlovable? Why don’t I ever get the happy ending?

But the problem isn’t you—

It’s the version of you that learned that you have to earn love to begin with.

Hi, I’m Emily. 😘

I’m here to help you stop chasing the wrong people & attract the partner you deserve - by becoming the version of you who no longer settles.

I created Root to Love Coaching because I lived this.

In dating, I’ve ignored red flags, downplayed my needs, and held onto people even after being shown that I was not truly safe or cared for with them. Can you relate?

I hit a breaking point & thought that there HAD to be a better way.

I discovered exactly why I was attracted to certain people, why the same problems played out with different partners, and how my present dating decisions were unknowingly controlled by my past.

I am now in a wonderful relationship with my fiance, Akshat. I know we would not have attracted each other if I hadn’t healed from my past and transformed my dating approach.

And now, it’s your turn. 💝

What does dating from self-love look like?

🤍 You show up as yourself from the beginning - & only order that salad if you actually want it!

🤍 You prioritize when someone brings you peace, not just butterflies.

🤍 You don’t entertain guys who expect you to be ok with days between hearing from them.

🤍 You don’t match on Hinge with the guy who smokes/drinks/etc, even though he’s hot, because you date based on who someone is now, not what you think you can fix or change.

🤍 You date yourself first - give yourself compliments, buy yourself roses - & only accept the same or better treatment.

It’s not about “fixing yourself.” There is nothing wrong with you.

It’s about coming back to yourself—and learning to receive love without performing or changing yourself for it.

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This isn’t more dating tips.