What if you stopped trying to be chosen?
You don’t need to earn love by being more sweet, likeable, chill, or available.
That pattern of proving your worth isn’t your personality - it’s something you learned.
Coaching with Emily
This is for you if you’re ready to stop repeating the same anxious dating patterns — overthinking texts, second-guessing interest, and feeling like you have to be and do more to be chosen.
In coaching, we release the pattern underneath all of that.
So you can:
Show up as you - confidently & without apology
Recognize genuine vs. superficial connection sooner
Feel grounded instead of anxious when you like someone
Make decisions from clarity, not urgency or hope
Hold standards that honor your desires & worth
This isn’t about becoming “better at dating.”
It’s about no longer dating from fear. And that’s exactly what aligns you with attracting the love you’ve been looking for.
Clients have said:
“I feel like I've discovered more about my relationship styles than I ever did in therapy.” — EB
“I do feel more empowered with my decisions in life, and I'm not just saying that.” — KS
“I’m learning to take a chance and let time run its course instead of ending things too soon.” — AB
Root to Love Coaching is for you if:
🩷 You want a relationship where you’re not guessing how they feel about you.
🩷 You're ready to feel genuinely at peace in yourself — not just when things are going well with someone.
🩷 You’re ready to stop attracting the same types of unavailable or toxic partners.
🩷 You want to feel confident in trusting your decisions & knowing when someone is good for you.
🩷 You’re tired of living in constant worry, doubt & self-criticism.
🩷 You want more than surface-level dating tips.
🩷 You’re ready to find the person who you can just totally be yourself with, who’s ready for the same commitment as you.
You don’t need to “fix” yourself to find love.
You just need to unlearn the old patterns that end up hurting you.
Hi, I’m Emily 🤍
I’m a holistic anxiety coach. I know exactly what it’s like to overthink everything I say and do, or always shrink myself trying to please others.
And I know exactly how anxiety can cause chronic self-sabotage in life and love.
My life changed when I learned to be my own safe space - when I finally came home to myself.
Now, I’m actually present instead of obsessing over the past and future. I’m in a healthy, happy marriage because I stopped chasing or settling. I finally feel peace and confidence being me.
I love helping other women come home to themselves too — so you can stop self-sabotaging, start showing up fully, & attract love that is safe and real.